How to get unstuck in life?

After reading this post, we’ll see:

• What is the personal board of directors.

• How to set up your personal board.

• How it helps.

TL; DR;

A personal board of directors is an informal group of people. They guide you in different areas of life.

But why should you know about this?

Do you feel lost when navigating major decisions:

• Personal growth.

• Relationships

• Career shifts

You're not alone. I struggle with uncertainty, especially when there is no proper guidance. And don't tell me the solution is "Google".

That leads to too much information & more confusion.

Fortunately I came across an elegant solution. Enter the personal board of directors.

Unlike a corporate board, your PBOD is focused on your growth. They offer you diverse perspectives from their life experiences.

Don't worry, you don't have to be a bigshot in a suit to get your board.

But what is it?

A trusted group of mentors, advisors & peers who help you navigate life. Because life is an exam where you have to figure out the answers (with a little bit of help...).

How to use this in your daily life:

Identify your needs. 

"A problem well-defined is a problem half solved” - John Dewey. Knowing is the first step. Take some time to define it. e.g.

1. Fitness.

2. Career.

3. Finance.

4. Spiritual.

5. Relationships.

Choose.

It's great if you know these people personally. e.g. a wise family member, elders or friends. Even otherwise, you're not limited in options. The internet helps you identify & learn from the best, in any field.

Even better? Books. Books are potent forms of knowledge. Think about it:

• It takes the author 10 months to write.

• It takes you 10 hours to read it.

• It costs you ~ $10.

Often, it contains 1 person's lifetime knowledge, the best bits. I cannot think of a better way to live many lives in one.

Schedule check - ins.

For me, unless it's in the calendar, it's not happening. Anytime you feel you need help, reach out. Don't hesitate, even if you've not been in touch for a long time, friends & family will he happy to speak.

If it's learning from books or other media, curate your consumption. Don't doom - scroll. I've written about some ideas here.

That’s it!!

I hope this concept helps you get unstuck in life. If you found this helpful, share with someone who will benefit.

Further reading:

• Want to Advance in Your Career? Build Your Own Board of Directors.

P.S: Did you like this idea? Let me know. I personally respond to each mail.